The truth is I'm not better off without her, she makes me really happy, i love her so much, but she won't believe me when i say i want her to be in my life forever....i don't think it's fair she's making this decision for me as to how i'm going to be spending the rest of my life..she knows, and i have said this...i want to be with her for the rest of my life....i just don't understand...
I've told her everything I can possibly think of...I've gotten mad, I've been sensitive, I've been mean, I've been nice...I've said everything I can say..and I KNOW she's wrong this time...I've taken advantage of all we have..and I realize that now...she says she just can't shake the feeling she won't make me happy..i know that's not true. i've given up....what do i do?...no jerk comments either...i'm in pieces...I need relationship advice...?
Have you thought maybe you've just plain old blown it. Most people don't want to spend all the time fighting. That gets old. Makes you tired. You are thinking of yourself.....only. She has made the wise decision that this is not the way she wants to spend the rest of her life. Sure easy for you to say. I can relate to that stuff, and pretty soon, you just get tired and you will not believe how easy it is to just walk away from it and never look back. Life's too short. She's taken a good look at your relationship and decided.Oh hell, no! She's not making your decision. She's not following your rules anymore! The harsh things that people say when they are fighting each other sometime stick. Everybody can't live the rest of their life like that. You forgot one thing, you weren't married. She is free to walk away at anytime, and you are just now facing the reality.........oh boy, she can! Now you're full of promises she doesn't want to hear anymore. I suggest you step back and give her time. That's why you've run out of ways to get her back. This time she means it! You understand....let's just call it denial. Think about it!
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