I've been giving him space as he did break up with me (because of his depression, feelings of unworthiness, and him not feeling affectionate because of it all - he feels he can't give me what I give him). He has been asking me to do things - like he asked me to hang out at his place during the week last week. He asked me to hang out on the weekend too. We got ridiculously drunk and he started kissing me, a lot. I can't even remember the last time he kissed me passionately.
I love this guy like nothing else, but I NEED affection. He wants me as his friend because he says he'll never lose me that way. He says I'm his best friend and he can talk to me better than anyone. Even his guy friends have no idea about his depression %26amp; medication. I don't want to move on because I see my future with this man, but I may also be clinging on to something that may never happen. I'm 25, and can't wait forever. He's 35, and may never get it together. What should I do?Help - relationship advice needed...?
It sounds like you have already decided to move on. Good luck*Help - relationship advice needed...?
well, it seems like he wants you to be a bestfriend for right now, it sucks alot, but you kind of have to be patient for right now. i kinda went through/am still going through the same thing since.....early july. it just takes time i guess i mean its really hard, but if you truely like this guy than it will be worth it in the end.
Move on. Apparently this guy is not ready to commit. He keeps pushing you to the back burner and sweetie if you can鈥檛 differentiate the meaning between friends and friends with benefits it isn鈥檛 a healthy relationship. Reconsider your position in his life.
If u love him like u say u do stick with him, help him out with his depression. If u guys can get thru this u can get thru anything
Thursday, December 31, 2009
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