Lesbian Relationship Advice?

So, my girlfriend and I have been arguing a bit lately, but I cannot seem to get her to fully listen to me. She cuts me off, and her temper has been something fierce. How do I say ';you're not paying attention to me, I need you to listen to what I have to say'; in a way she will understand? I keep trying, but I don't know what else to say. Help? I love her so much, and I need to work through this with her like the adults that we are, but I don't know how to assert myself enough to get her to listen.Lesbian Relationship Advice?
1. you can what til she really calm and try to tell her then.





2.Try writting a letter and give it to her.


My voice is really soft, and even when I'm angry it sounds like I'm being nice. So I usually will write them something, they read it and usually let me talk without interuption.





3. Or you can get a friend louder than her to referee so you can have equal amounts of time to speak.Lesbian Relationship Advice?
Tell her to get her temper under control . If she doesnt - move on . Life is too short to be emotionally pushed around -
Threaten to break up with her. That usually gets the job done.
First of all don't write a letter. Most people I know write letters when they wanna say something and they get pretty worked up and then regret what they said in that letter. Words can get pretty hurtful sometimes. What you need to do is get her alone, take her to your house or on a date or something. Then just tell her to hear you out on somethings you have to say. If she has something to say about a specific thing let her say it, its better to hear her out at the same time. If she loves you, she'll listen and try to work things out which I'm sure she wants to do. :)