Serious relationship advice needed.?

Hi everyone, I have been seeing a man for four years on and off. The first part of our relationship was 2 and a half years, then we split.....his choice. but we got back together properly 9 months later after both having the odd very short relationship. one month after getting back ( last dec) his mum was diagnosedwith motor neurone disease and she sadly passed away one month ago, leaving him living with his dad.


During the time his mum was ill, he looked after her and I saw him about once a week if that. I am living with my folks at the mo, as due to being made redundant could not afford to keep up the rent on my house ( the same house he was supposed to move into with me before we split) I want to approach him about us moving in together............When and how should I do this, I do feel I am being messed around by this man. PS I am 38.....he is 36.Serious relationship advice needed.?
Firstly, if you feel like you are being messed around by this man, why would you want to suggest moving in together?


I understand about taking care of elderly/sick parents, however you are both adults and truly should not be living with your parents. I can understand an elderly parent living with YOU, but not you living with/off of them.


I'm hoping you are both employed and should be able to have your own residences. Perhaps now is not the time to share a home. Perhaps he's not ';the one';.


Best wishes whatever you decide to do.Serious relationship advice needed.?
Stay single. He comes into your life by accident. Not the most handsome but he has a strength. your mother has something to do with the way you will meet. wait. your father says wait.

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