Relationship Advice?

Okay. Almost a month ago I started going out with this guy. It's all been pretty good, but something's sorta bothering me.





You see, since we started going out, when my friends find out, I learn that (just within the few months prior) he'd asked a lot of them out. Heck, one twice. And one of them not very long before he asked ME out. Should that bother me as much as it is? Because it seems like he's almost desperate when I look at it like that...





And, something else, these past couple days I've been out sick. Does it seem weird that I haven't heard anything from him but have gotten text upon text from my ex (who is now just a friend) asking if I was okay, but HE hasn't called or anything...





I'm half-hoping you'll all tell me I'm paranoid, but if not, I kinda need help. I don't want to bring it up with my friends because let's face it, no matter how good their intentions are, they'll be biased.





Please and thank you.Relationship Advice?
Well from experience, I used to work with a guy that asked me out but asked soo many other girls out too.. and yes.. it seems as though this guy is desperate..


You want a guy who REALLY loves YOU and you only. Who doesn't want 2 just date some random girl just because.. but you get what im saying??





Maybe call this guy and see if things are okay. Sometimes there's a reason why guys don't text or call back, sometimes they're busy- sometimes your phones aren't working ( especially if you're on telus it seems 2 happen )..





Don't worry I see what you mean..


Just be careful, cuz you want a guy who loves you for who you are.. :)Relationship Advice?
I think you better take a second look in this relationship. Thats sad he didnt even call you to see if you're ok. I would get bitchy if my bf did that to me because it shows how much your bf is concerned. i guess he is lacking that. and your ex is more sincere in this situation. i would be paranoid but dont assume a lot of things right now. you have to talk to him. one of the important keys in the relationship is a good communication. no matter how bad it is, you have to tell him straight up.
wow sorry 4 wats going on sister ... but u should really take a look and see who this guy that ur dating really iz and wat he's really about ....l wat he did b 4 about him trying to talk to ur frenz iz a lil crazy but think about it this way u werent together ... **** happenz u no but he should really call u to see how things are wif u ... thats ****** up !
I understand where you are coming from. But, honestly, if you want to be with him, I'd just talk to him and ask. Why did you ask so many of my friends out? Do you WANT to be with me?





About the sick thing, it's great that your ex texted you to make sure you were okay. If your boyfriend doesn't, maybe that's a sign? Or maybe that's another conversation to have with him.





You're welcome and good luck!
well the fact that he asked a lot of your friends out means he would date basically every1 and very desperate and he should call u !!!!!!!!