I need Relationship Advice ?

Ok Everybody I got Some really good news . For the first time in my life I Met someone who I like that likes me back. Im sure some of you may have seen me on here before asking for advice on how to meet a nice girl. well it turns out that '; Being Yourself really works';. Let me give you a little backround info On me. Im a guy who has been all alone for my whole life for 21 years. Never had a girlfriend , never had a '; Could Be girlfriend or even a crush . Iv always been the guy that everybody rejects or just writes off . I always felt like i was gonna Die Alone as a single soul and wither away in to hell were i belong. i felt like i was cursed to be single forever . i even wanted to commit suicide for awile








well thats not me anymore . now I found someone who likes me for me . She would be Litterly my first girlfriend and Im 21 , so im kinda nervus She told me she really like me as more then just a friend , but she already has a boyfriend as she calls him , but really this guy is a long distance boyfriend who lives on the otherside of the country of USA . she asked me if she should break up with him to be with me . ';I told her to do what ever she thinks is best'; I want to be with her but i dont want to look like im trying to be a selfish bastard and break up a relationship to be with her. so my question is





What should i do ?





i really like her . shes the only girl thats ever shown interest in me , or that at least that i was able to tell , i may have not seen the signs . but anyways she always tells me i make her feel good about herself and she likes that im there for her and i listen to her. her BF dosent do that . she wants me to be her New BF





I really want this thing to work but im nervus , iv never had a girlfriend before and i want to do this the right way . i really need some help . please





and thanks for reading my question , yes i know it was a bit lanthy but i needed to ask someone


thanks for any good adviceI need Relationship Advice ?
If being yourself worked before, it'll work again~ : ]


I think she should break up with her current BF if she really doesn't think it's working out.


But I don't think you'll look like a selfish bastard. It seems like she really likes you, a lot. : DI need Relationship Advice ?
well i think she's taking advantage of the situation...and when she goes to visit back east will you be her long distance boyfriend who she cheat on!!
Whatever you do, don't get involved with her until she cuts the other ties. Otherwise, you'll be wondering in the back of your mind whether she really DID cut the strings, and if so... is she going to turn around and do the same thing to you??!?!?
i have been in your situation too...please dont take your suicide thoughts for granted.go and see a psychiatrist( there is nothing wrong in seeking advice).


about the girl...yes just be yourself....!!! in fact you need to trust yourself,when i was in high school i was kind of popular due to my sense of humor..but always alone because i was very fat..i worked hard and at the age of 19 i was aproached by a modelling agency..i didnot take it because i wanted to be a doctor...but after that i gained confidence in myself..i started dating...few people believe me when i told them i was a virgin until i was 20!!! its like that...its not always good looks that can make you get a girl. its also the way you behave.


try to be understanding..listen to her ( it can sometimes be boring-but when you are in love nothing is boring!!) try to be romantic.


try to make her happy. and tell her what you feel without feeling ashamed of your self.


i hope i helped you good luck
Long distance relationships can be hard. If she doesn't want it anymore she should let her current bf know and then you all can move forward. But be sure she really breaks up with him because you wouldn't want her to play you and you get hurt later down the road. I say its find just so she's fair to her bf. Also almost committing suicide because no girl has ever liked you. Sounds like you have some underlying problems. You dont need someone else to complete you. You must love yourself first, and be happy with just yourself first because if you don't... believe it or not... being with someone wont fix your problem. And it will usually cause more problems in the relationship. Look within yourself and find happiness.