Sunday, December 27, 2009

Relationship advice, please help.?

I have been with my partner for almost 5 years. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I would not be the person I am today if it was not for her. She is everything anyone would want to look for in a person.


I am feeling a bit confused. The intimacy is not the same, the communication is not the same and I just feel as if Im unsure if Im still in love with her. I just started feeling this way recently when I realized we are not doing the same things we use to, the discussion about me buying a house went one way, my way. Looks like I will be buying on my own. Not only that but you know when people say its hard to be in a relationship with a mama's boy, well shes the female version.


She doesn't care much to be too involved with my family and I am extremely family oriented and shes not. I don't know if Im asking for too much.


I cant imagine hurting her, I feel terrible. Im confused, I don't know what to do. I have tried plenty of sit downs and nothing seems to change. Im 27 and I cant imagine starting all over with someone else.


Totally bummed!Relationship advice, please help.?
Sounds like the two of you need to sit down and have it out. Put all your cards on the table. On the surface, it seems you're drifting apart and moving in opposite directions. Maybe there's a reason she's acting differently, and doesn't enjoy being around your family. But if you are asking this question, the answer's already there. It sounds to me like you care deeply about her and love her as a person, but not as a romantic partner anymore. Maybe it's time to take a break at least and see if/how your feelings change.Relationship advice, please help.?
as relationships grow they also change and you have to work at it noone said it would be easy maybe you should just ask her if she still wants to be with you as far as your family goes ask if something rubbed her wrong maybe she doesnt feel like she totally welcome or accepted ,if you end up with this girl she is your family and possible mother of your children becoming the most important and finally if you cant or dont find out it seems to me your already with someone elese and at this point you dont have nothing to loose

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