My ex girlfriend and I broke up in September and we broke up because I felt like I couldnt trust her. I moved back from Texas to be closer to my family. In November she called me out of the blue to ';see how i was doing'; Since then we've kinda been talking on and off. She has a new girlfriend now, that I'm trying to accept, I guess the important thing is I want her to be happy. Anyway after we broke up a few times I would email her or tell her on the phone ';hey im not ready to be friends with you yet'; and about a week to two weeks later she would email me to ';see how im doing'; One day last week I asked her why she talks to me, and her exact words were ';I talk to you because I think about you sometimes, it happens so sorry I just wont anymore'; its crap though because she will wait a little bit and contact me again. I want her to be in my life she is still very important to me, but I dont know whats going on. We talked on the phone a few days ago and she told me that she wants me to be in her life, and that she wants to come visit me and blah blah blah. If she is happy with her girlfriend why is she even bothering to talk to me? I know that she's not using me for anything because I dont live in Texas anymore. Then on top of that she is ignoring my text messages and my phone calls now. We talked on Friday and Saturday and I havent heard from her since. Can anyone tell me what might be going on? I'm confusedEx relationship advice ?
It's simple: you are her emotional safety net. She wants to string you along, so that way if it doesn't work out between her and her girlfriend that she can easily run back to you because you two will still have a line of communication going.
Snip the line and let sleeping dogs lie...Then, put the b-itch to sleep emotionally! LOL
Sunday, December 27, 2009
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