Relationship Advice , i don't know where this is going..?

she won't talk to me over the phone..





i met my girlfriend over the internet on a game , we have been together for almost 10 months ... along the way we had many pointless fights but however we came strong , but there was one thing that always bothered me , she never even once spoke to me on the phone .. we end up texting each other , this was ok with me but i am kinda frustrated about it now .. i really love her and would try my very best to get her despite our religeon diffrrences ..over the months i always called her but she never once picked her cell phone it was about 75+ times .. i confronted her about it and she was rather lax about the whole situation and said sorry , but never was like '; hey, can you call me ?'; ... At one point i even told her to call me within 6 hours or i would leave her , however i gave up hope , but at the last minute she called and she dint say anything much i did most of the talking , that really hurt me though and got me thinking if she would have called immediately if i threatened to leave her , not at the end of 6 hours...i am real shy and i dont know what to talk to her about with a thought that i would bore her , but i gave up that feeling as it neccesary to be social in a long distance relationship , texting all the time doesnt server that purpose..





However , i decided i wouldnt call her unless she wanted it (because i dont want to break my heart calling all over again and she doesnt pick up) , and i keep reminding her about it indirectly or directly whenever we chat on an IM or playing our game . Lately i have been very lonely in real life , i dont go out w/ my friends (most of them are girls and one girl likes me) ,





i been telling her about her calling me and repeated the same thing saying ';i would only call when you want me too , or i wont bother really'; , to which she says nothing or even responds ... Lately she told me her friend asked her out in real she declined , but however i insisited she should go as it would be good on her part as she wont be limiting herself she got annoyed and left , i really love this girl but i dont want to call her till she fully opens up , however i been really patient (for almost 9 months now) and been waiting for real long for a conversation , i would trade my left nut for it , i am that desperate .. i have tried talking to her about it , its like talking to a wall and i have run out of idea's and confronting her seems pointless , just today we got into a fight telling her i am sick of reminding her again and again of the whole situation and texting continuously keeps the whole relationship at a fantasy level and i wanna get out of that , if you guys can help me out it would be great .. this is like opening a pandora's box..





i am a guy willing to go an extra 100 miles for her , but what do i do? i never met a girl as complex as this





P.S. my friends have told me to dump her , but i really cant do that .. despite the many people i have dated irl , this is one girl i genuinely love (i refused to get back with me ex , as well) , you might call me a retard or ****** up for having done this for a girl over the internet :/Relationship Advice , i don't know where this is going..?
tell her shes not acting like she rally cares about u