HELP!!!! RELATIONSHIP ADVICE?

Well i am leaving to go to miami for my modeling. and i really wanted to chill with my boyfriend before i left. we both planned spending time tigether before i left, and i let him know that this is what i wanted to do ahead of time. Even if i will be gone for only 4 ir 5 days i still wanted to spend time with him because i felt that it would make my trip go better than ever. So the night before he all of a sudden told me that his boss (works at fed ex) asked him if he could come in early and work over time (remind u it was his choice) and he said yes. He told me this and asked me if i could give him a ride to work knowing that we were suppose to hang out before i left that night and he knew how much it ment to me. i could understand if he had no choice but he was given a choice this time. I had a number of things planned for us that whole day but it was ruined. I feel that is he wanted to chill with me as bad i did he would have known what to say. because i constantly scarife things to do just to be with him, and i get nothing in return. The same thing happened on our anniversary, i made plans and reservations but he was caught up doing other things. I couldnt believe that he asked me to take him to work when he knew we were suppse to chill, i did it cuz i love him, but when he got out the car i couldn give him a kiss or tell him i love him at all because he let me down again. I jus need u guys HONEST advice on this...PLEASE REPLYHELP!!!! RELATIONSHIP ADVICE?
I think that you should just call him and talk to him about it. It might sound really corny but it really works! If you just tell him that you didn't like it when he totally ignored you, he'll really listen if he loves you like you love him. Then you guys should plan your anniversaries together so that he can remember to put you in front of his work!HELP!!!! RELATIONSHIP ADVICE?
tell him that he needs to stop picking other stuff over u, and remind him that he had a choice and should have said no! tell him that if he really cared about u, that he would want to spend time with u as bad as u want to spend time with him
You need to talk to him and explain how you feel and if he doesn't get it than he's not worth your time! He may or may not be trying to save money for something too and needed the extra money! You never no guys are complicated!
tell him what you just said and then ask him if you could just take a small vacation with each other. his boss may understand.
Guys a Douche.
just relax and breathe...give him to options make him choose.
I think that maybe you should try talking to him about it, you know, tell him how it makes you feel. It's way wrong of him to choose work over you when you are going away, and if you feel it's not right, tell him. If he loves you like you love him, then everything should work out fine. If not, make him jealous. Make him feel like he has to be with you or maybe he could lose you. Hope I helped!
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I think that it's time for you to dump this guy...





I know that you'll say that I love him and that he's my whole life etc. but if he doesn't take time off to appreciate you then he's just not work your time. He left you THE DAY BEFORE YOU WENT AWAY! That is a big no-no. Also, if on your anniversary he leaves you too, then he is DEFINITELY not your type. A guy should love you and miss you and want to spend time with you all the time. He should put work ahead of you.





Also, if you don't want to dump him then just try talking to him. Some guys just forget themselves sometimes and think that they're still single. If you talk to him then maybe he'll shape up.





Another thing that you should try is to go to one of his friends (someone you know REALLY well). Talk to them about it because then he or she can tell you things that you're not going to find out on Yahoo Answers because we don't know the guy or what his personality is like. But ONLY talk to them if you know him/her really well or else its going to be really awkward.





So all in all, either dump him, talk to him, or talk to a friend.





Hope that this helped!
there could be a coupla reasons maybe he's jealous not cuz you're going to Miami but cuz you'll be modeling some guys just don't like the idear other reasons are maybe he's getting bored and he's sending you signals to break up with him..some guys are just not so open (most guys) best thing to do is askin' him what's wrong? if he says nothing's wrong keep askin' him daily until breaks lol hope this helps
He sounds immature.





I would let him know how I felt about it, how much his inconsiderate behavior hurt me. He is taking for granted that you'll always be there.





But when you come back from Miami, let him chase you. Don't always be available. If he says he has to work, say ';that's great, I have a lot of stuff I need to do, or maybe I'll go see so and so...';





Do not sacrifice for him any more. You've seen how well that pays off.
Well if you really love him:


1) you would tell him that you made plans and that he shouldnt go in for work (unless he REALLY needs the money)


2)if he goes even though he doesnt need the money, you should think about breaking up with him because if he wants money more the you, that wont work out in a relationship in the long haul.





good luck with boyfriend trouble!





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Don't get too mad at him. You don't knwo why he decided to go to work. he may be saving up money to buy you something. I was very sick right before Valentine's day and ym boyfriend went to work when they called hima nd i was mad because he was going to stay with me because i was sick but come to find out he went to work to get more money for my necklace for valentines day.

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