So I met this girl about 2 months ago and we've been dating since. She's gorgoeus and we are in love. It was the whole love at first sight thing, we just absolutely click on everything. Things have happened very fast, and basically it just seems so good. I've never had this good of a relationship. Most of my past loves have been really shady, but this girl seems so perfect. I really find myself sometimes going back to old precautions wondering if she could/would stray. Do you ladies have any advice on how to deal with these feelings or can you provide any insight? Thank you very much in advance for your thoughts.Ladies. Relationship advice?
going to fast is not a very good thing. And there's no such thing as love as first sight. Take your time. You don't want to regret anything later on.Ladies. Relationship advice?
In my opinion i think it's human nature to wonder whether or not our partners will stray. Unfortunately we'll never know that answer for sure. I think the best thing you can do, if you can, is let those feelings go and trust her, give her the benefit of the doubt. It would be a real shame to let all the other ';shady'; girls ruin a potentially wonderful relationship. Good luck :)
I disagree! People fall in and out of love, like falling stars! YES, there is such thing as love at first sight, NO, I don't think you've found it! (YET) OK, if it was love, you wouldn't know what hit you. Like a flame you can't extinguish. And you would NEVER EVER EVER think ';WHAT IF'; you've probably found lust. Wanting her but not NEEDING her. I say that if there is any doubt in your mind... wait. But If it was love then you wouldn't care, even if she DID stray... you would keep coming back! SO! My advise is to wait! get to know her a little more and you ever think ';WHAT IF?'; then your not in %26lt;LOVE%26gt;
XOXO
Lovely -N- Lushous
Communication, honesty and trust are the vital ingredients in any relationship. My partner has been very open with me from the beginning, confided personal matters to me and as a result I tell him things I normally wouldn't tell anybody else. We have a wonderful trust and I have never felt jealous or threatened that he may stray.
The only advice that I could offer would be to be totally honest about how you feel with this girl and ask her how she feels about you. Generally, I think a good test of a relationship is to stick it out for at least a year so you can really get to know the person.
That being said, although I don't believe in love at first sight, my husband did propose marriage to me after knowing one another for a month and a half and I said yes. We celebrated our 22nd wedding anniversary this past July, and we are still in love and very inseperable.
When you know, you just know. I wish you all of the best. Remember to be gentle and offer the utmost respect to this girl that you care so much about.
If you've been burned in the past by a cheating girlfriend, then yes it is hard to not think negative. When you start to think about it, think of how great she is and how much you love her. If you really think she wouldn't stray, then she probably won't. Remember she is not any of your ex's and she loves you.
Sunday, December 27, 2009
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