Serious relationship advice needed.. i met someone else?

My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 8 months or so. We've have alot of fun together and I care about him alot.


But, I haven't fallen in love with him yet. We have similar interests, but our personalities clash (he is loud, quick tempered, I am the opposite.) . Also he is 9 years older than me. We tend to miscommunicate alot :/ Besides these few differences, he treats me with respect, and gives me lots of affection, and we have good times.





2 weeks ago, I met a very intriguing guy. he's not like any of the guys i've met in college. He is very mature for his age, ambitious and smart. We both play the piano, have beagles, from the same city, our parents are foreigners, the list goes on. Our personalities are very similar too, he is very calm and collected. Because we're such a great match, I think I would want to date him in the future, but not while I have a boyfriend. But I am already starting to develop feelings for him...





So what should I do?


The age difference between my bf and I has started to get to me, for example, we don't introduce our parents to each other. and we usually hang out alone, not with my/his friends. btw, He is probably leaving for vet school next year. Help?? much appreciated, Cheers!Serious relationship advice needed.. i met someone else?
I don't know what you are struggling with, you already know the answer, I guess you just want to hear it from someone else.





You are not doing your current boyfriend a favor by staying with him, because you are not giving him 100%, and it doesn't sound like he is giving you 100% either. You two are best friends, but you are not drawn to him, like a person should be when you want to spend the rest of your life with someone.





You have to BOTH be physically attracted to each other, and you have to have a lot in common, for a long term relationship to work. Any differences that you have will pull you apart over time, as you are beginning to see.





Tell your current boyfriend that you two have drifted apart because of your differences, and no matter how much to care for him, you cannot change your personalities.





As for the new guy, only you and he know how you feel about each other. Try to make sure that the two of you don't have too many differences if you are going to try to date. Good luck.





Hope that helps.