I need relationship advice, I really screwed things up with my boyfriend?

Basically, my ex boyfriend who I dated for a year and a half and was in love with started texting me lately. I'm over him, completely. But the night he texted me I was upset with my boyfriend so I flirted with him... a lot. I said things like ';I want to come over'; and ';if I had car I would'; and he said he'd come pick me up, but I drew the line there and told him no that's a bad idea. My boyfriend got a hold of my phone that night and it upset him so bad. Ive never seen him so hurt and so betrayed. I have no idea how to fix this. He said he can't bring himself to breakup with me because I'm the only person he can see himself with but then again he doesn't know how long our trust less relationship will last. Someone please help me. I can't lose him. I don't ever want to do that to him again, and I know I never will... but how can I make him see that?I need relationship advice, I really screwed things up with my boyfriend?
Not going to lie, but you definitely screwed things up big time.





Just sit down with him, and talk it over. Admit to him you made a mistake, and apologize. Assure him you won't do anything like that again, and I'm pretty sure if he loves you enough, he'll understand.





Love is a bumpy road, and stuff like this can only make it stronger in some cases.





Good luck.





:)I need relationship advice, I really screwed things up with my boyfriend?
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wow sweetie. im really sorry. see, that's why i have a lock on my phone. haha..anyway. more serious..i think trust is always hard. no matter if ur in a good relationship or not. i think you need to be upfront and honest with your boyfriend. the truth hurts sometimes, but its better to say it than leave it. idk how you can make him see that you want him..cuz what you did. but i've been in the situation before..and truthfully, the best policy was and is honesty. maybe just give him a day to cool off, and dont play victim when he comes back around. im not trying to sound mean or anything..so im sorry about that..but you know you were in the wrong. but everyone makes mistakes. and he must be a good guy..your current boyfriend..if he says he cant break up with you..just take things slow..and dont let it just blow over like nothing happened..trust me thats worse. if u need anything else, my email is arodshorty13@yahoo.com good luck with everything :)