So me an my boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up wed. But now we are back together!! But the thing id that his mom an brother keep saying things that are not making him so sure if he wants to stay stay together. He says he loves me an cant live without me. He still wants t marry me once we fix our problems. He says were still together.. FOR NOW. UGH, i have no clue on what i should do. Should i tell him that he needs to be his own man? Should i sit there an fix things an let him see we are gonna work? And sometime down the line his family will be okay with us like they use to be??? UGH NEED ADVICE PLZ!!Need RELATIONSHIP advice?
well first, whyd he break up with u?
and why does his family suddenly have a problem with you guys?
now obviously he's questioning whether or not he wants to be with you, now you need to question it too, is he worth it, is everything hes putting you through worth it? if not then it may be time to end itNeed RELATIONSHIP advice?
if you love him and want to stay with him even if it means that his family doesn't like you then you should tell him that. you should tell him that you will stand by him but he needs to not listen to him family and make his own choices. he need to be his own man like you said. but remember to trust your gut. you really need to ask yourself if you think you guys can work around the problems and his family.
Tell him you want to have a break until he can figure out what HE wants, and to give you some room to thing about what you want. Ask him to respect your wish and to call you when he has made up his mind. You'll call hem back when you've made up yours. He'll look at what he wants not his family. If he really doesn't want to be with you, he will leave. Stop Sex with him for a week or two just to make sure he's not there just for that.
whether you break up now or are married and live happily ever after, his family will always throw in their 2 cents. give it time and see if it will work out without making him choose between you and his family. if you are meant to be with him, it will happen. give the wounds time to heal and be kind to each other.
If you are young don't rush your life!
Take your time making this decision. If the guy loves you he will be there.
Give it time, because in a few weeks you might just decide you do not want to spend the rest of your life with him.
Sometimes relationships are built on challenges instead of love.
Do a little soul searching before you make a life time commitment to someone.
Marriage is not easy especially these days!
I'd google relationship tips
to see if you can learn how to communicate better and get what you BOTH want.
Sunday, December 27, 2009
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