Relationship advice please!?

I have been with my fiance for 5 years, 2 years ago, i found out he had been on hundreds of sex partner websites. He claimed he didn't actually plan on meeting anyone and was just curious, i felt horrible and disgusted i believed him and we stayed together. However, i cant keep thinking he will do it again. I know he loves me but there is this niggly feeling that i always have. I am completely paranoid and scared he will do it again. He is adamant he wont and says it was just curiosity. How can i overcome my trust issues and learn to forget it? Its taking over my life now so much that im worried i will drive him away. I don't check his emails or anything like that, or don't ask what he is looking at when he is online, i just keep these feelings to myself. Watching porn doesnt even bother me. How can i get over this and learn to believe that he really wont do it again?Relationship advice please!?
You can't, the trust you instilled has been broken. Just curious my ****, get rid before he brakes your heart.Relationship advice please!?
Its obvious you have real trust issues regarding him or maybe you just suffer from low self esteem and fear he will find someone better than you. Get a grip. Many people check through odd websites out of curiosity. That is what is expected from having so much info at your fingertips. You need to check into some esteem and trust sites before you explode and lose him because you're driving him crazy.
I think if you love this man you should let the past be the past i think that when you are online you try to explore new things everybody does it as long as he didn't do anything with these women or meet them i wouldn't worry about it because who's to say if you leave this man over something like this that you all aren't going to be back together stay with him because he didn't cheat and stop thinking about it when he stop doing the things he use to do or stop showing you attention then you worry.
He has broken your trust once and you cant get over it before he proves to you he wont do it again, Talk to him about it, tell him how you feel and ask him if he would mind if you could read his email, sit with him when he is online sometimes not all the time cause then he will think youre to obsessive. Hope evrything works out for you!!
trust your instinct. he said he was just curious, so why didnt he mention it to you at the time. if you are still having doubts then you dont trust him, and trust is key to a relationship.


talk to him, tell him how you feel about it etc, dont accuse him of doing anything, but just express how you feel etc. and if he leaves, then he wasnt worth your time.
well, for me, my opinion.. give him a chance everybody needs a second chance.. if u know that he loves you and u feel that.. maybe what he said was true... i can understand how u feel, but maybe his serious this time.. ur engaged your not married yet... you have time to realize and see if his serious or not.. give it a tym.. and give him a chance.. u love him he loves you.. he and u deserve second chance..





another thing..tell him about it.. whats your concern.. again. communication is a KEY to everything..





hope it works out for you guys!
Been there done that. LISTEN: Screw him. Once a cheater always a cheat. And sorry but he is full of dog doodoo. You know he will do it, only a matter of time. And he could bring you a nice nasty little disease home. DO NOT MARRY THIS RAT!!! Sorry but sounds like you deserve much better!n Good luck.
thats his personal past, if he hasnt shown you that he's going to do that in the future then you have no reason to judge him. those sites are out there for a reason.
Have you sat down with him recently about your concerns to see if he can help you get over them and help you regain your trust in him. Maybe you just need to confront him about it. I have kinda the same problem, my boyfriend has a friend up north that he has known for many years and every time he text's her he smiles so I have a jealous side to myself and i have told him many times that it bothers me and that I'm never going to get over it and he tells me that it will get better over time and we have been going together for 2 years and it eats me up inside. Hope this helps and keeps you two together. You can always try a marriage counselor even though you two are not married yet. I am sure that they would be able to help you through your pre-marriage problems.

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