I need relationship advice. My bf went to jail, and I met someone else. We hit it off....?

The first date was my bday, and the 2nd and 3rd went sour cause we started fighting. We made up, and now it's all aboutour communication... My dilemma is, I want to be treated RIGHT, and the one on jail wasn't serious about me. I even think he went to jail so we would break up. Now, my first love has come back after 15 YEARS! I feel bad for making him wait so long, and I lost him because I didn't know what love was. Now, I think he still wants me, and I had just about given up on love! What to do?!?!?!I need relationship advice. My bf went to jail, and I met someone else. We hit it off....?
try it out with your old love and see what happens. your family will trip but its about you not them.I need relationship advice. My bf went to jail, and I met someone else. We hit it off....?
Dammit woman, first of all: simmer down.





1) It doesn't matter if he's black: if you like him, you like him. Even if people are upset over that fact that he's black, THEY'LL GET OVER IT. Remember that.





2) homeboy in jail: is it county? Prison? Hmm....doesn't matter, it sounds like your relationship with him was tumultuous anyway. Walk away from it.





3) remember that the new guy is not the same person you remember from years ago. People change, kid.





4) as a woman, always remember to be financially independent enough to walk away from a relationship, in case things don't work out.
omg went to jail?
should it matter that he's black? I know lots of families disagree on things because of how people and things LOOK. It doesn't matter! Stereotypes should not exist at all` Of course you can't help it if they grew up being taught that blacks and other races blah blah blah. y'know what I mean. But if you really love him and knows for sure that he loves you then go for it. It's ur life. Your future. Do you really want your family and friends to ruin it for you, or do you wanna live your life your way cuz you've got only one life to live? If they're gonna destroy ur relationship because of that, then I guess they don't really love you as much as they--or you--thought. Some people just don't get it. The few who do usually end up in countless conflicts.. good luck.
I think you need to back off both of them and give your self some time to figure this out, its not far to any of them. you need to make a choice, and stick with it, you need to tell the one you don't want, that its over and let him move on, 15 years is a lot to wait for someone. People change, and your probably not the same person as before. You should have told him long time ago that it was over. just don't tell him it was over another guy.
go with your heart.


**** racial profiling, im white and my gf is mexican.


like it or not it doesent change US.