OK i am a senior and the girl i am interested in is a junior. We have never talked. recently she approached my friends in a class they have together and told them she thought I was cute, she must have known that they would relay this info to me. Well everyone found out and made a big deal about it, so I didnt talk to her about it. Now seniors have graduated, so I wont bump into her anymore. Was there a reason that she told my friends this, I cant help but think she wants me to initiate the conversation. Also, If i were to use AIM (i have her screenname) how would the conversation go, i wouldnt wnat it to get awkward. Thanks for the help.Help relationship advice needed pleassseee....ladies?
of course she told your friends that because she's interested in you. she knows that your friends would say something to you.
that was her way of getting your attention without seeming pushy, she's trying to be ladylike and get you to make the first move.
absolutely use her aim id to get in touch with her.
just start it off real simple, like ';hi, how are you tonight?';, ';what are you doing this weekend?';.
if you chat a little in between, and then ask the weekend question, then she might give you another hint by saying she's not planning anything, then you can ask her to go with you to a movie or something.
do try to get her phone # via AIM and try to have a nice conversation with her, and don't be afraid to call her cell just to say ';hi'; once a day.
i know you might be afraid of putting yourself out there and leaving yourself open to rejection, but until you get to know each other's personalities, you really don't know if you would have a chance together anyway, so you really have to just give it a try and see if you guys ';click';. hopefully this will lead to a fun summertime romance for you two.
show that you are interested in her and her likes and dislikes and try not to always just talk about yourself, and be nice to her friends and family, their opinion matters and if they think you are nice, it always helps the relationship.Help relationship advice needed pleassseee....ladies?
she probably is a little interested but first i would try to become her friend and not be too fast. I think that approaching her in person would be too abrupt so, maybe start a nice flowing conversation on AIM and get used to talking to her. Then when you get to know her better you guys can start hanging out together.
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
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