Mature relationship advice. We are still sneaking around help.?

This is kinda sad and embarrassing, but I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for four years now, and we are still hiding our relationship. We have to hid our relationship from our parents even though we are in our mid twenties. We are from two totally different parts of the world but born in the US, and we are from different religions, Muslim and Christian, and so that is the reason why we hid our long relationship from them. I really love him, but I am getting to the breaking point were it will be so much better to just call it quits. I really just wanna come clean and stop hiding, but i don't know if its better to stay hidden so that I could avoid the calamity that the realization of our relationship could cause. Please only mature answers.Mature relationship advice. We are still sneaking around help.?
Love is love.





Are you going to be able to hide the wedding? What about if you want to have children? Good luck hiding those.





In my opinion, if your family can't accept who you've fallen in love with then they can't except you.





It is possibly to have a relationship with different religious beliefs. If you don't talk about religion with each other then there really shouldn't be a problem (aside from the place of the wedding) but even then compromise can be made.





You over 20 years old, an adult, you make your own choices, so start doing it.Mature relationship advice. We are still sneaking around help.?
my sister is Hmong and in a relationship with a Cambodian guy. Since we're not allowed to date outside our race, my parents were furious at first but they got used to it.


my best advice is just to come clean. of course your parents will be mad, but they can't be mad forever.
dear cydie indeed u are in a very bad situation but i think u must talk concerning with ur parents cause they gave u a good upbring,security in life and evryything how can u forget all that for a boy?


and do u thing his parents will accept u as u are?


after having a child do u think their will be problems to choose for religion?


ur parents have the right to choose for u or maybe advise u in a good path...seek for their help first....and what ever they will decide it would for the good of their OWN CHILD!


DON'T DECIDE FOR ONLY NOW U ARE VERY YOUNG AND HAVE A LONG LIFE TO LIVE BETTER U LIVE IT WITH SUPPORT RATHER THAN ISLTION WITH UR HUSBAND ONLY....