So i've had a friendship with a girl i met at the start of uni for over a year now, i've always fancied her but the past few months we're alot closer, we sleep together alot (not sex), kiss n cuddle etc, and i often get confused because its like a relationship yet not. Basically at the end of the day i think deep inside myself i know she just wants to be friends but i get down about it because i like her so so much and would love to be her boyfriend. i know somethings maybe aren't meant to be but can anyone offer me some advice on this? i would be much appreciated.
ThanksNeed relationship advice?
Are you sure that she just wants to be friends? She might not require you to behave like her husband, but that does not mean that you could not engage in sexual interaction with her, which would be a pleasure for both of you.
There are two ways to take the next step: talk to her about it, or try going further next time she is in your arms.
People have different preferences over what to do first ... simply be yourself and do not force anything upon her, i.e. do not talk about it if she starts feeling uncomfortable about it, nor should you keep touching her if she keeps responding in an uncomfortable way.
Email me if you need more advice.
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