Need relationship advice!!!?

So I have been really depressed lately. I am with my guy and I want to work things out with him, I truly believe he has changed and we are going to couples couseling. He is trying to be a better person, and he is doing well. My problem is that he and I recently got back together and he told me that he waited for me and was not with anyone else when we were broken up. I admitted to dating osmeone else and sleeping with him. He denied doing anything, he said he was too devistated over the break up to even think about another women, the thought made him sick. I knew he was lying bc of our past. ( He cheated). And today in therapy he admitted to being w/ someone when we were apart. My problem is that this means he has been lying for 4 months now. And I am very angry! I feel like all the progress we have made is shot b/c how could he have changed if he has been lying. Please help me decide whether to stay with him or not.Need relationship advice!!!?
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. If he lied and cheated more than once, I'd say he is having some problems, and he's not making it any easier for you. Look towards your own happiness; if you're feeling really depressed then this relationship is taking it's toll on you, and you should be with someone who loves you back, and makes you happy.Need relationship advice!!!?
Maybe, he was afraid he would lose you. But, if he can't stop this pattern, then leave him.
Well, he did eventually oven up. So know you know that he as not change but is in the process of changing. Change is a process - we are always in the state of change. Did he tell you the truth because he is changing or was there some benefit for him?





You are investing a lot of yourself and your time into this. If it is making you depressed then maybe this isn't the relationship for you. You shouldn't try to fit a square peg into a round hole. If you want to invest two more years of your life to verify that he have indeed made progress, that will be your choice. People don't usually do a 365 overnight. Is this what you really want deep in your heart or are you just being desperate and sentimental. It is time to start thinking with your head and not with your heart.
obviously you would be angry. Think of the pros and cons, only you can decide to leave him or stay with him
he probably lied because he was afraid you wouldn't want to be with him anymore...however, he also cheated in the past, and most likely lied then to try to stay with you too.





as others have said, it is your call, but the question remains, can you trust him? i mean, you're already in the state that you're in and he still didn't come clean and become more open?





in life, i believe there is too much potential to find someone trustworthy and worthy to waste too much time/energy with someone who can't or doesn't value me.
ji
move on immediately if you have any doubts
Maybe hes not the rite guy for you. I think you should move on and find some1 that will respect you and not lie