Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Relationship advice???

hey. me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 10 months. i love him to death and i may be pregnant with his kid. he always tells me how much he loves me and that he'd NEVER cheat on me. well just today, i was on a girl's Myspace and it had a few of his pictures on there. apparently, she's been at his house more than once since we've been together. she put in her site that he was her best friend and she could talk about anything with him. i dont understand. that's what I'M here for... ive tried talking to him about not letting girls come over before and he said he doesnt WANT them to, but they do it anyway.


what should i do???Relationship advice???
if he can't keep his dick in his pants you either live with it or dump him. now about the baby, it your decision but you need to make it soon if you choose to abort.Relationship advice???
You should tell him how it made you feel when you saw the pictures on the myspace page. Tell him that you understand that he is not in control of girls' actions but of his own, and that his actions (letting girls come over, etc) really affect you and are hurting you. If he does not love you the way you need to be love, it is not a healthy relationship, but hopefully this can work! Good luck!!
Ask him about it. Right now the only ';evidence'; you have is someones myspace page. There's nothing wrong with having a best friend outside of the relationship. You need someone like that to vent to at times about things going on in the relationship. Has he ever given you any reason to doubt him in the past?





Before you go any further, erase the doubt and find out yes or no if you are pregnant.
dump his ***
tell him to shut up.. if someone come over that you dont want there dont answere the door... duh about the pics, i dont think you should be too concerned, they werent nudes were they? lol
If she's just his friend then you should just trust him and let it go. If he loves you he wont do anything to hut you.
Well I hate to tell you this but if you want to have a good relationship it all starts with trust. You can't tell someone who they can or can't hang out with. All you can do is trust that the person you love won't do you wrong. If he's giving you a reason not to trust him then you need to bring those issues up with him and not try to rule his life, all that will do is run him away...TRUST ME!
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He's lying through his teeth to you babe!! He could let them know, in now uncertain terms, that they are not wanted, and that he is very much in love with you! Girls usually leave a guy alone if they see he has commited his love and affection to one lady. If she has put his pic on her website, she has reason to believe she has a chance with him, and he has given her good reason to believe that.





Would he let you talk to guys and put their pics on your website right now, and think nothing of it?? Answer that question to yourself honestly. Hope and pray the best for you.
kick ther ***
next guy to come along.
Don't ever be surprised of finding your guys pic as a friend on womens myspace profile. Many are making friends on it. As for girls coming to his house, if he doesn't want them there, he should tell them. Maybe they are just friends, as she says, but you should be told by him, or be with him when they do. Continue telling him, how you feel til he hears you. Just don't accuse or let thoughts without proof enter your mind.It can cause problems in a relationship. Is he open and honest with you about his life and what he does? Sometimes we read into things, with our own thoughts. Be aware of things going on ,but always know for sure before you assume. Ask him about things you see, don't know or understand. It sounds like you do. All you can do is trust him, til he gives you a reason not to. I wish you the best.
I think you're being overprotective.





Some guys have girls that are friends, and they talk about a lot of things together. She is his safety net when you and him get in arguments or whatnot and he needs someone to talk to.





Guys aren't brick walls. They aren't people who can just get up and walk away from broken legs like the TV and movies make you believe.





Talk to him about it. If you can't talk to the person you love about petty things like this, what kind of relationship do you have?
to be honest, you shouldnt tell him he isnt allowed his friends to come over. he is just saying that because he KNOWS you wont like it. he will soon get annoyed that you dont let him see his friends!! its very likely that he IS her best friend and that she COULD tell anything to him!!! she is hardly gona tell it to you!!





i have a serious bf.. i am still more likely to discuss it with my best male buddy before him!! and you should tell him about the baby!





he isnt cheating on you. you should learn to trust him! the girl says they are just best mates, he says he would never cheat on you, you are just paranoid.. most likely hormones.. and dont get hissy at that cos its the truth!! it happens to me too!!! but i have learned to trust what my boyfriend says... and as of yet he has never given me a reason not to!!.. and i dont think yours has either!!
suggest a threesome and see what he says

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