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Me and my wife get into these little tiffs, she is always joking that she doesn't love me and we are just friends, i have an uncanny knack for taking this literally as the thought of us as just friends hurts beyond comprehension, i m certain she is just joking when she says it as she is a big kidder through and through, partly why i love her so much, anyways she did it last night and i kind of lost it, she just couldn't understand then she came round to why and we made up, how do i stop myself from loosing it when she says this to me in jest? it just hurts too bad when she says it to me and i react badly, what do i do to get around this?Need relationship advice? EASY 10 POINTS?
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what are you even asking!? shes the one who should stop saying that. people change for people or stop habits of theirs if they know its hurting someone they love, she should do the same. Report Abuse

Ur losing it because inside every joke lies alittle truth.. how about instead of you having to just deal with it how about u just talk to ur wife about there should be a boundry of what can be joked about and what cant.. and perhaps ur commitment to each other should be where the line is drawn.
If your wife really loves you, she would stop these nasty jokes that she knows hurts you.Just tell her plain out how it makes you feel and that you and your relationship with her is suffering from these kind of jokes.
i would tell her how much you love her and even tho you know shes joking that it hurts when she says that she will understand maybe u will have a laugh or two :3 obviously you love each other verry much dont be afraid to share you feelins wit her :D
The key word that you said was, she was joking, so just take it as that.
If it hurts you this much she shouldn't say it. This is something SHE needs to work on, not you. Its called respect.
Easy up buddy. ';It's a joke.'; Learn to laugh a little.
I hear what you're saying. I wonder what motivates your wife to make these comments? At any rate, what works for me is that I restructured my thinking, and went on to meet and marry my best friend. My wife sometimes calls me a pervert whenever I make any (even the slightest) comment about sex, sexiness or being romantic. She means it in jest of course because she always smiles when she says it, but initially, it didn't sit too well with me. I've had to let myself develop a bit of a sense of humour on that topic. So, part of it is her saying these things, and part of it is your reaction to it.
Me and my husband joke around the same exact way! I tell him I'm only with him bc he's my best friend other then that there's nothing there.then he started taking it seriously I guess bc we say it so much even though he knew I was just kidding. He flipped out. And we talked about it...... We don't say that anymore bc I never ever ever want him to think he's only afriend to me. He's my life, he's my everything.








Sit her down and tell her even tho you know she's just kidding it's starting to get to you. Shell understand trust me. And maybe you guys could come up with something new to joke about.





Hope I was able to help you out.