HELP!!! Relationship advice. he hit me!?

My boyfriend and I were together for a year and a half. He is 25 and lives @ home with mom and dad, and I am 20. We just got into a big fight, I pushed him and he pinned me down and hit me in the face.(with the flat side of his fist) I just can't believe he hit me. He said I was the only woman he ever dated that he wanted to punch in the face. It makes me so upset. he has NEVER done that before and I never thought he would.





I left immediately after and didn't talk to him for a week. I thought i was over him and I wanted my things back from his house (clothing and jewelry, mainly) and he kept putting it off and not meeting me. Finally last night we met up and WHAT DO YOU KNOW...he ';forgot'; to bring me a a necklace and earrings of mine. (that he bought for me)


Is he using this as a excuse to see me again in the future?





It was sad, though I threw my phone across the parking lot and lost my stylus. I hugged him and left and later on I texted him and told him he forgot my necklace and he told me he had forgotten it and to cut my head off or he would, and that I was psycho and to leave him the **** alone. He KNEW that I wanted EVERYTHING back and I just feel like he is trying to control me with strings and I don't know what to do. I can't talk to him because he tells me to leave him the **** alone. (sorry for cursing, im just so aggravated) I love him and I would love to be with him I just don't know how to deal. How long should I not talk to him for? It so hard.HELP!!! Relationship advice. he hit me!?
Please listen me: This guy is total bad news. I don't care how nice the necklace and earrings were. They are not worth getting beat up (or worse). Leave this guy alone, FOREVER. Do not call him, text him, anything. Never speak to him again. Stay away. Have I made myself clear?HELP!!! Relationship advice. he hit me!?
Do not for any reason whatsoever get back with this guy. It will never stop with that one punch to the face no matter what he says. If you want your personal belongings back, do it the legal way and hire a lawyer. Filing a police report about the incident and saving the threatening texts will help you in this situation.
OMFG!!!! thats scary... girl... LEAVE HIM NOW!!!! he threatened u and hit you... CALL THE POLICE%26gt;%26gt; im not even joking call the police on him.. thats abuse and hes threantening you!!!! PLease do somthing about this for your sake!!!! this cuds end up really badly if u dont do somthing about this... please....
forget about the necklace it isn't worth it honey this guy HIT U get out now nad dont turn back he anit worth Ur love u deserve better
LEAVE HIM NOW!!!!!! Any guy that hurts you doesnt deserve you... DO NOT GIVE HIM A 2ND CHANCE!!!!! just leave. there are plenty of other guys way better than him and that deserve you! don't sell yourself short!
never talk to hi again he is Psycho
You need to find a completely different person.


He HIT you. He should be done. Forget the necklace and earrings,


your safety is much more important. He was probably just keeping them because he bought them. I don't think you should ever talk to him again. Hearts can heal; the best way to get over an old love is to find new love.


If he loved you, he wouldn't have hit you.
LEAVE. NOW. I have been in an abusive relationship and it would be the smartest, most empowering thing you can do for yourself. Once a man hits you, and you go back to him, he'll think it's okay to do it and keep doing it. What you feel isn't love, it's dependence, and you need to get out of that situation. Please, do not go back to a man who hits you. I know it's hard because you get so used to being controlled that you're not sure what else there is in the world but that nightmare. You have to do it, for yourself.
listen, im going to be as honest as i can be with out cussing....


wtf is your problem? he slapped you. ARE you white? i dont understand if a man beats the **** out of you, and tells you to leave him alone, why yall keep going back. and then wonder why he kills you.





sweety, it is NOT hard.





if you want your **** back that bad, bring the cops with you to get your property





or go to small claims court





and if you value your life, leave his azz alone!!!!!!
Don't talk to him. Ever again. I mean this guy doesn't have his **** together and he is to mean and aggressive to be with a girl. You need to just go over to the house when you know he will be out like he is at work or something and ask the parents if you can get our stuff. Or if it is not so important like family hand downs just forget it. It seems like he might change but it is not worth it is just better to start new. Just trust me.