Constructive relationship advice please?

met my italian girlfriend when i was working in london, feel in love at first sight i`ve visited her about five times in 8 months i send her letters emails and songs that i write for her almost everyday. Everything was going great with her and her family we were coming together, but 3 weeks ago around the same time my girl started being nasty to me on our daily online chats her mum was diagnosed with cancer. I have been writing to here more and more but whatever i say no matter how sweet or unconfrontational she finds a way to argue. I stopped every destructive aspect of my life to make her happy including the odd binge drink. I went to italy the other day following all the bad conversations in the attempt to fix the bad blood between us i had been speaking with her mum telling her that i was going to propose to her daughter under the bridge of sighs in venice. So i get there and am not welcomed by my long distance partner, instead she gives me the cold shoulder, i ask her to speak to me about how she is feeling and she tells me to stay out of her Business then she goes out and stays out the night with who i don`t know. When she returns i am distraught heartbroken so i leave for england, i think i have lost the love of my life what can i do?Constructive relationship advice please?
Hi Keiron, see you again.


I know all your story, and I've translated some of your letters. I think this girl at the moment is very nasty with you, but I don't know why. Maybe she met somebody else, or she feels that your are hurring things too much. Who knows!


Let her free, just disappear, vanish, and if she really loves you, she'll come back to you.


There's a British say:


';If you love something let it free: If it does come back, it's yours; if it doesn't, it never was';.Constructive relationship advice please?
words of advise- don't smother. she's going through alot and might need to be by he self for a while.





if she continues to behave this way towards you, after a considerable amount of time, then move on.





she may be making room for the love of your life!





good luck and have a great day!
i think that she is upset about her mom cancer you need to a little more understand about what she is going through. Give her some space and let her come talk to you.It's not that she don't love you her mom is sick and that is a hurting feeling.
Give her time to deal with her issues but don't be a fool and wait forever. Let her know what you are doing and specify that you understand she need space to think also let her know that you have a shoulder to cry on if she needs it.
sounds like she needs some space, give her what she needs and then try talking to her again.. it might be the whole distance relationship thats bugging her or simply she doesn' t know how to deal with her feelings and emotions about her mom's illness... i think a little bit of space should help
Give her time and space, she is probably coping with the situation concerning her mother in the best way she can. Just let her know you are there when she needs you. Just keep checking that she is Ok.
You were in cyber love...they dont count as REAL relationships..and she has someone else...
That is really sad. I'm sorry for your heartbreak. But heres the thing long distance relationships are hard to make work. She probably doesnt think it is worth trying to make it work when she has her mom now diagnosed with cancer. The only thing i can tell you that might get her back is to wait it out and let her get over the shock and depression of her mom. She'll realize she needs you around sooner then later.
Give her some space and some time. And please don't propose when she is dealing with these troubles that is the last memory a women wants about her engagement. Don't propose to someone who is being mean to you either. It doesn't sound like her emotions have anything to do with you so stop acting like it is about you. Your relationship may be the only thing she feels she has control over so she is taking her sadness out on you. Don't confront her, don't smoother her and don't tell her you understand or that anything about herself or your relationship. Have some patience and let her work it out herself.

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