Saturday, December 19, 2009

Need relationship advice?

I have been broken up with my gf for a little over 2 years. We were together for about 4 1/2 yrs. I was completely in love and thought I would be with this girl forever. It was her first real relationship and she was a virgin when we met. Her reason for ending it was she wanted to see what else what out there. We have remained friends and hang out and talk on the phone occasionally. She has apologized for the way she ended it, and has not ruled out the possibility of getting back together at some point. Recently I found out that she had another bf that she went out with for like 3 months, then he cheated on her. To my knowledge they have not gotten back together. Im hoping that she is starting to realize that most guys are assholes and how good she was treated while with me. Im looking for some kind of advice to get her to feel the same way about me that she once did, if that is even possible.Need relationship advice?
I hate to tell you this, but there's not much you really can do. She has to learn those things for herself. But, if you really want advice...you have to cut her off. I know that sounds weird, but right now she's getting the boyfriend out of you (by still caring, and trying to show her how awesome you are) while you're just getting a friend. You're giving her the best of both worlds-a stable guy who's there for her (you) and the freedom to go off and be with any guy she wants because she's single. The only way she's ever going to realize how awesome you are is if you quit giving her that awesomeness. Soon she'll begin to miss it and realize she messed up.Need relationship advice?
girl r like that bro but the only thing you van do now is move on with another girl there might be some1 waiting for ya out there..

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