Relationship Advice please?

So my girlfriend told me that she is going to cabo with a group of her girlfriends. We have been together for awhile and have a good mature relationship and she knows that i have been very hurt in the past and that I couldnt go through it again. i trust her but i think that I just over think the situation too much. That being said im just very nervous about her going to mexico for spring break!! and idk how to tell her without her getting frustrated that I dont trust her...Its odvious that people get wasted and hook up during spring break and that is what is scaring me now...What should I do?? I really care about this girl and she knows that..but mexico without your bf idk? Relationship Advice please?
Your fear is from your past not hers. By letting her know your worries your telling her you don't trust her.


Being nervous is only natural if you've been hurt in the past.


Is that how you meet your girl friend out one night and you and she hooked up wasted. I bet not. Give her the benefit of being a adult and making the right decisions first.





But I hear you bro !Relationship Advice please?
Mexico for spring break is a definite worry. Trust between you two could be very strong, but temptation runs high along with testosterone in Mexico, especially on spring break. It is dangerous, there can be nothing but bad thoughts. Maybe you should talk to her about this? Has your relationship been extremely long? If so, she may understand but I don't know because she would get angry if you told her straight up she cannot go to Mexico. It will also make you seem like the bad guy, I see a loss/loss situation here.
two things, either let her go trusting her not to do bad things because she hasnt given you any reason not to. (dont base your past relationships on this one ) or let her know you dont feel comfortable her going there.


but you proablly should let her go, trust her untill she gives u a reason not to.