Saturday, December 19, 2009

Relationship Advice? Please?

It all started out when i was 13. at school i really liked a girl and she asked me out. but then i found out it was a dare from some of her friends and said no. and things have been pretty weird since. like arguing for no real reason etc.but today she came on msn and started apologising for as she put it ';being a ***** over the years'; so i said it was probably me so not to worry about it. its her birthday next week and now shes invited me. i think she has changed and i certainly have. the party is not set in stone, but it should be at one of her mates house and sounds like it should be pretty good. i was just wondering if i could have some advice on anything to do with this. e.g what to do now, what to do then, etc etc. I'm usually a pretty shy guy when it comes to the girls, and its kinda awkward because the guys i hang around with aren't the same. I'm good friends with 3 of her girl mates and she has changed friend groups from when we used to argue and fall out. if anyone is really good on this subject and there is the possibility for email/IM that would be really great. i would be really grateful for any advice! thank you all very much and hope you all have a really nice day/night! :DRelationship Advice? Please?
Be casual. That's always the key. Small conversation, little jokes here and there. Don't stress about it, we don't want you getting all nervous and fidgety on her. Just be casual.Relationship Advice? Please?
Just play it by ear and see how it go's. Be careful at first until you get some kind of signal from her that she's cool with everything. Women are tricky when it comes to having a relationship with them. If your getting good vibes from her, then just relax and go with the flow. Be honest with her from the get go and always be honest with her. Trust is one of the most important things there is in a relationship. You'll know by the way she acting if she real or fake about her feelings for you.
Well considering she was/is a 13-year-old girl, and you're saying she has changed as a person as well as changing groups of friends, then it is safe to say she is easily influenced by peer pressure. Maybe se was being mean or snappy with you because her friends were that way. Young girls will often pretend to hate the guy they like. It's almost like they are trying to be impressive or playing hard-to-get. It sounds to me like she has liked you all along. I remember when I was a thirteen year old girl I really liked this boy in my class, but I was too afraid to ask him out, so I put myself in a situation where I knew I would get dared to ask him out. I asked him out on the dare, and he said yes, but, the same as your story, he found out it was a dare and changed his mind. I was just too insecure at the time to admit that I wanted to go out with him.


It sounds like your mate here has just about the same problem, and is finally beginning to gain some Independence and/or confidence. She is starting to come around, so be patient and tolerant of her behaviour. It s quite typical for her age, and something that guys will just never understand, but if you wait for her and treat her right, she'll probably end up going for you !


Hope everything works out and this advice helped !


Good luck !
You know, I think thet everybody can have a second chance. Everything has changed in the world and will be changing always!


I do not clearly understand: if she invited you as a boyfriend or just a guest. If just a guest I think you have to be joyful, happy and gay , with laughing, talking with girls (you can prepare a some funny stories for this case) . Everybody like happiness, and fun. Therefore you won't be alone or miserable. Your girl will be a bit jealous and it will make you desirable.
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