Relationship advice, adults only please.?

I'm 25 and have had 3 serious long term relationships for the past 7 years. I think I need some time for me now because I don't even know what a relationship is supposed to be anymore.





Being the dumb guy that I am I went to a party on the weekend and made out with a girl that lives on the same street as me who is 31. Now she's texting me and I am so afraid of getting into another relationship because it's only been 3 months since my last one. It's not that I don't like her, it's just that I know I'll destroy any relationship I get involved in right now because I am so fragile.





How would you handle my situation and why? I realize I've made mistakes so please just comments on how to proceed forwards.Relationship advice, adults only please.?
Just tell her that you are not ready for any type of involvement right now because you are still trying to sort things out for yourself. Be honest with her since I am sure that you do not want to string her along. Plus if you find her somewhat attractive, tell her so. She would appreciate it and it would minimize the rejection.Relationship advice, adults only please.?
Why do you think you'd get into a relationship with her or that she wants a relationship with you? If this were my I would contact this woman and keep it casual. Have sex and maybe hangout occasionally so that I don't catch feelings. But this is me knowing myself. If you feel that you cannot carry on a casual relationship, there is no shame in that; just don't contact her any further. If you can however, don't lie to her and let her know you're not interested in anything serious.
You can tell her that you like her but you are not yet ready to get into a serious relationship. If being friends is okay with her, then i guess you can just be friends for the moment and go on from there, just be honest.
just tell her that your not looking for a relationship and your sorry..its not that you dont want to have a relationship with her. its just your on the rebound and you dont want to start something so soon. she should understand.





best of luck hun xo