Saturday, December 19, 2009

Relationship advice young love?

my girlfriend and I spend all of our time together we have a one year old son together and do plan to get married. I am 18 and she will be 18 in sept. lately she has been saying she needs space. so im accepting and all i mean we see each other 24 7 and when im at work shes with the baby and my family. idk what kinda space shes asking for. i feel any time i ask she gets mad and says i dont understand. i mean i dont want her going and being with other guys hanging on them and ect. she told me to go get space and hang out with people go to the club ect. i told her why would i go if im not with u i wouldn't wanna dance with another girl. she said she wants me to and that she would. so i asked if shed be grinding on other guys and she said if i go and theres another guy im gonna dance and do that with him. i told her that it really bothers me and got all mad and i feel like shes not considering me at all.... am I in the wrong what should i do????Relationship advice young love?
Your 18 and she's 17 (18 in a couple of months), don't get married. She wants to be single. Suck it up and pay child support and move on with your life. She is not happy. When someone says they want/ need space they feel smothered. 24/7 your spending too much time with her, your up her butt. Take some time apart and find yourself.





But if you two are set on getting married you should wait for 1 year. If in 1 year you both decide to get married then go for it, give it a try .

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